Good Reasons To Remain Single And Not Date

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 At a point in time or the other , a man or woman may want to be relationship that would lead to marriage. With this , the long-term goal would be to have children and have one’s own family.

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This is the ultimate plan of most young people but it is also interesting to note that there are equally good reasons for one to be single and not date.

The reasons why it may be beneficial to stay single have been outlined below;

 Especially when one is single and not in any relationship, one is able to have enough time for him/herself.

Comparatively, when one is able to have enough free time when not in a relationship than when the person is in a relationship.

This offers one the opportunity to engage in activities of interest the person wouldn’t have been able to engage in if that person was in a relationship.

Most times when people are in a relationship, their activities are hinged on the interests of their partners and they are not able to have time for themselves.

Being single gives one the freedom to do anything that is of interest to the person.

Relationship limits people in what they can do and  where they can go but when single , people have all the freedom to do what pleases them.

Relationships get in the way of the partners in that they are not able to go out to have fun all by themselves.

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Most times ,partners who are in a relationship, are expected to go out together and jealousy and unhappiness sets in when one decides to go out alone.

However, when single, one can decide to go out to anywhere and at anytime without getting anyone jealous and unhappy.

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Being single and going out would not generate any guilt whatsoever.

 When one is single and not tied down in any relationship, one is able to go on dates to meet new people and possibly decide to later get into a relationship.

However, when one is already in a relationship, it becomes very difficult to go on a date with someone else as that can misconstrued as cheating.

Being single gives one the chance or opportunity to date as many people as possible and then make a decision on who to settle down with for a relationship.

 This may sound awkward but most times when people are in a relationship, they need to be careful of what they post on social media be it a post , picture or a status so that their partners do not consider the post in the wrong context.

However, when one is not in any relationship , there is total freedom to post anything at all on social media.

In the same vein, there wouldn’t be any form of social media monitoring on the part of one’s partner.

It is important to note that when two people are in a relationship, they are indirectly obliged to have a relationship or accept the family and friends of their partners.

However, when one is not in any relationship, there wouldn’t be the need to try and accept or have a relationship with the family and friends of one’s partner.

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